Heal the Relationship with Your Self and Heal Your Life
What if everything you’re searching for – healing, peace, love, success – comes down to one thing? Your relationship with your self. The way you see yourself. The way you treat yourself. The way you talk to and about yourself.
Healing isn’t just about fixing what’s broken – it’s about transforming the way you experience your own existence.
When you heal your relationship with yourself, you begin to heal everything: your health, your emotions, your energy, other relationships and even the way life unfolds around you.
Life Reflects What You Believe
If you don’t feel seen, loved, or valued by others… take a moment to look inward.
- Do you see you?
- Do you love yourself?
- Do you value you?
- Do you respect yourself?
- Do you fully accept yourself – flaws, quirks and all?
Because here’s the truth: The way you treat yourself sets the tone for how life and everyone & everything in it treats you. The energy you hold about yourself is the energy you put out into the world. And life mirrors that energy back to you.
Forgive Yourself for Ever Believing You Weren’t Enough
One of the deepest forms of healing is forgiveness. Not just forgiving others, but forgiving yourself.
- Forgive yourself for the times you doubted your worth.
- Forgive yourself for believing you weren’t enough.
- Forgive yourself for holding onto pain longer than you needed to.
Forgiveness isn’t saying the past didn’t matter – it’s saying it no longer controls you. When you bring love, healing and forgiveness to your thoughts and beliefs about yourself, you rewrite your relationship with your life.
You Deserve Good Things – Do You Believe That?
Healing happens when you know – without a doubt – that you are worthy.
So, ask yourself:
- Do I believe I deserve love?
- Do I believe I deserve joy, laughter and good health?
- Do I believe I am worthy of success, abundance and peace?
You are worthy and deserving of all good things. But until you fully believe it, life can’t reflect it back to you. Healing isn’t about waiting for life to prove your worth to you. It’s about choosing to believe in your wholeness and your worthiness first and forevermore.
Shift Everything with One Question: What If…?
What if, starting today, you treated yourself like the most valuable, deserving person you know?
- What if you spoke to yourself with kindness?
- what if you saw yourself as unquestionably worthy just as you are in this moment.
- What if you honored your needs, desires and boundaries?
- What if you forgave yourself completely?
- What if you treated yourself and your body with the upmost respect and acceptance?
Healing is not about fixing yourself. It’s about remembering who you really are. And who you really are… is already enough. This doesn’t mean there aren’t going to be things about yourself that you’d like to adjust, revise or shift – but change when you accept yourself “as is” is much more natural to step into, because there is a deep and authentic knowing that you deserve it! Know this, trust it and believe it by affirming these 3 “truth statements” to yourself regularly;
- I am worthy.
- I am loved.
- I am enough.
Now take a deep breath in… and slowly exhale.
Your healing has begun.